I dunno if it's just because I live in Germany (and, ergo, there are more grumpy people here), or if it's coming winter and the lack of vitamin D is affecting people, but I don't think so. Lately, in every area of my life (it seems) I'm running into...grousing.
You know the point I mean. "Oh, this and this isn't right. This isn't right. Waaah waaaah wahhh. I didn't get this done. I didn't get this thing I wanted. My life is crap.
Well, somebody better call you a waaaaah-mbulance, by god.
*pulls b*tch-slapping gloves on*
I'm sorry, but your life is not crap.
You are healthy.
You have your family - either by blood or the ones you chose.
You have a roof over your head.
You have food.
You have water.
You have some money to take care of things.
You are ALIVE. ALIVE!!
You know what? Everything above that is a freakin' bonus. So you're not done with your book yet. That just means when you are you have finished that book at YOUR OPTIMAL TIME. So your life is just utter shite. Take a realistic look at yourself before you go blaming others!
You're getting done what you want to do. All life is, for the most part, a choice. So pull on your big girl (or boy) panties, decide what you want, and by all the gods that are holy to you and me, go out there and get it, human! According to some, you only have one lifetime to grab the bull by the horns, so by golly, DO IT!
Then come back here and REPORT!
Here's mine. I'm super tired by the Loki sprog, super tired. All the time. I use that as an excuse sometimes to do nothing, which gets me nowhere, then I grouse and am p*ssed. I realized last night that I hate that. I hate that grousing feeling, like the world owes me something. (All the world owes me is a book contract, LOL!) So my solution is to NOT SIT DOWN until I have everything done I want to do in the house. I've tried the last couple days and tho now when I finally really sit down I am SUPER tired, but I also got shiz done. (Like 15 chapters edited as of last night! Whohoo!) It was hard to determine that the world didn't owe me, but it worked. And maybe it only works for me.